Tuesday, 11 December 2012

From Best Friend to Boyfriend...



Question: Dear Tiel-Ash, I like my Male best friend and he has admitted to a few people that he likes me too. What do I do? 

Answer: Dear Kate The article below will teach you some of the things all you need to know.

He's your best friend. He's smart, funny, great to be around. He's been your shoulder to cry on and your partner in crime. And now you're realizing you have feelings for him. This isn't the end of the world! You bonded with him because you have similar spirits. You are friends because you get along. You're close because there is something that attracted you to one another. So is it possible to move out of the "friend zone" and turn your best friend into your boyfriend? It's different for everyone, but it has happened. Read on for a few helpful tips on making him look at you in a new light.


Amplify What You Already Have
Don't scare him off by rushing into anything - you could confuse him and potentially do damage to your friendship. Take it easy at first; try to see him more often, be a little bit more affectionate. If you make yourself a bigger part of his life it will be harder for him to imagine it without you.

Let Him Know You're Not One of the Guys
Lots of girls get stuck in the friend category because they bond well with males. If you regularly hang out with the guys, perhaps it's time to take a look at your behavior. He has to learn to look at you as a woman who is attractive, confident, and utterly datable! If he starts to bring up other women in his life, try to be very subtle about conveying your jealousy - but still convey it. If you let him in on this, he will probably figure out that you have feelings for him beyond friendship.

He's Still a Man - Flirt!
At this point he's probably questioning your motives. Maybe he's noticed the little changes in your behavior but isn't quite sure what to make of them. It's your responsibility from here on out to make sure that he gets the picture! Flirt away. He may be your best friend, but you can win him over the same way you'd win any guy over. Be a little more playful, act more affectionate, even compliment him every so often. Start dressing up for him when you know you will be meeting up. Every man has a weak spot for a sexily-dressed woman and it may be that extra push that gets him to realize that you are an available, attractive woman.
Falling for your best friend can be scary at first, but it can also make for the best relationship you've ever had. You get to enter into a relationship already knowing that you and your partner are compatible. On the other hand, it can be intimidating to risk a quality friendship by pushing it into romantic territory. Use your best judgement. Don't force anything; let it happen naturally.
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