Top 10 Relationship Tip For 2013

1.      If a man/woman wants you, nothing can keep him away.

2.      If he/she doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay....

3.      Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his behavior  (Likewise, don't make excuses for your own bad behavior - take action, make change, create the life you deserve.)

4.      Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Trust and value your own wisdom.

5.      Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. And don't try to change him/her either, it just doesn't work. The only person you can change is yourself. As painful as it may be, sometimes it's better to step out of a bad relationship and step into your own happiness.

6.      Never live your life for a man/woman before you find what makes you truly happy. (That means you need to find your own happiness first... And remember: Happiness is a journey, not a destination.)

7.      If a relationship ends because the man/woman was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't 'be friends.' A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

8.      Never borrow someone else's man/woman, if he/she cheated with you, he/she will cheat on you.

9.      A man/woman will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you..

10.  You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complementary, not supplementary.

 

Dear Tiel-Ash/ Readers. Does He Want To Marry Me?

Dear Tiel-Ash, I have been in a relationship for about 7 years now. I am 25 and my partner is 28. I am very perplexed as to why he has not popped the question yet. When ever friends ask, he simply replies "all in good time". I am under pressure from my family an friends and i do not know what to do.  Does He Want To Marry Me?

3 Indications That You're Old News

If you're like a lot of women, you may be dating a guy and things are going well... at first. You still like him but you aren't sure if he still likes you the same way. So, is he still with you or has he gone on to seek his love somewhere else? It's easy to tell if a guy is still interested in you or not. Unlike us, guys are more direct so knowing if he still wants you or has moved on is pretty easy to see. Still, if you're having trouble, read on to learn the three tell-tale signs that you're old news.

No New Messages

When you first started dating, he'd call you pretty regularly, right? Have you noticed that your phone hasn't been ringing as much lately, at least not from him? Well, unless you know him to be working tons of overtime trying to move up at his job, then this is the first sign that you are in his past now. Regardless of how tied up he is with whatever is going on in his life, if you mean something to him, he will call you, text you, or get in contact with you in some way.

Sorry, Some Other Time

Perhaps the communication lines are still open, but now instead of getting together like you used to do, for some reason he just can't find the time to meet up with you. Every time the two of you arrange to get together, he has to back out for some reason. Is it just bad luck that you two just can't seem to get together anymore? Possibly, but more likely is the fact that he just doesn't want to. When a man really likes you, he will take steps to break or reschedule his plans that aren't too important just to be with you. Two down, one to go.

No Lovey-Dovey

At first the intimacy was all there. He'd wrap his arms around you, kiss you tenderly, and depending on how far the contact of the relationship went, the sex was wonderful. Lately, he's acting as if you have the plague. He won't touch you or kiss you anymore, and may even go so far as to avoid physical contact altogether. What does remain seems as warm as being naked in the snow. So, have you been feeling more like a leper than a lover? If you have, then the most likely explanation is he's done with you.

Now you know three sure signs he's finished with you. Although guys are more direct than we are, it would still be nice if a man wasn't interested anymore that he would just say so. It could be because of a misguided attempt to spare your feelings, or it could be plain and simple cowardice. Regardless of the reason behind it, if you've been seeing one or more of these signs from your man, then sorry to say he's not your man anymore. Time to move on with your life, seeking a man who is interested in you and will stay that way.

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From Best Friend to Boyfriend...

Question: Dear Tiel-Ash, I like my Male best friend and he has admitted to a few people that he likes me too. What do I do? 

Answer: Dear Kate The article below will teach you some of the things all you need to know.

He's your best friend. He's smart, funny, great to be around. He's been your shoulder to cry on and your partner in crime. And now you're realizing you have feelings for him. This isn't the end of the world! You bonded with him because you have similar spirits. You are friends because you get along. You're close because there is something that attracted you to one another. So is it possible to move out of the "friend zone" and turn your best friend into your boyfriend? It's different for everyone, but it has happened. Read on for a few helpful tips on making him look at you in a new light.

It's Over, But My Ex Wants To Be Friends!

The relationship has been declared over... it's finished. Fine. It's time to move on with your life. Fine. But suddenly, your ex partner tells you even though the two of you are no longer a couple, they still want to be friends. Is this fine? Not really.

Being told an ex wants to remain friends sends a mixed signal. They don't want to be a couple, but they want to be friends! Why? Does this mean this is all the relationship ever had to offer them in the first place? It's quite possible. Now the relationship is over... the relationship you thought was an intimate one; is your ex finding it much easier to admit this?

But before you put them on your social speed dial, you need to ask yourself an important question: will allowing this be better for you, or worse?

What would you benefit from having them as just a friend? Would it continually stir up old feelings for you? Would it be terribly uncomfortable to be around them since they meant much more to you than just a casual acquaintance?

You also have to consider at some point... probably in the near future, they are going to start dating someone else. How is that going to make you feel? As a "friend", you will be expected to hang out with them and see them together as a couple, like you used to be. Are you willing to put yourself through this?

The most important step for you to take at this point, is to get on with your life. If you focus on what might be happening with your ex then you will drive yourself crazy. There were specific reasons for the breakup; so remember what they were.

If you asked for the breakup, then there had to be enough substantial doubts in your mind you didn't feel the relationship had anywhere to go. Even if you question your motives now, it was still sufficient enough at the time to warrant a breakup.

If they asked for it, they must have felt the same thing. Either that, or they had found someone else you are not yet aware of. Either way, their reason was more important to them than being with you.

If it was a mutual decision, then you both saw the truth and realized the relationship was not "the relationship of your all time dreams". If you went so far as to consider the relationship over, then that should apply to the friendship, side too.

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How To Determine If someone Is a Liar By Observing Their Body Language

Determining if someone is lying to you by observing their body language is possible. However it requires training and much practice. You do not want to judge someone to be a liar based on their body language if you do not have the proper training in this type of activity.

There are somethings to look for in a person's body movement that you can use as indicators of lying. But it is recommended you use several of these indicators. You should also consider the emotional state of the person when you are considering their body language. Pervious to your observation the person may have been through a very stressful situation. There emotions could still be elevated and make any clues provided by body signs incorrect.

Another factor to consider is how you view this person. Do you have any ideas which are based on what other people may have said. You as the observer must have no prejudices towards the person being observed. Having prejudices that could taint your judgement will cloud you observations. You as the observer do not want to form an opinion without adequate evidence.

You also have to consider the type of liar they are and how good they are at it. Some liars are very good at their deceit and can even fool the most expert human lie detector. The liar could actually be an expert at determining if someone is lying to them by observing their body movement. So they will know how to conceal their deceit. This could make it very difficult to determine if they are lying

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